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A Letter To My Babes: Philippians Style

Sweet friends, you’re in for a treat!  Allow me to introduce you to one of my favorite humans on the planet: Bethany.  I met this amazing woman several years ago through a mutual friend (our bestie below on the left), and we’ve been mutually smitten ever since.

Besties sepia

Bethany is wise, she is kind, she is hilarious, and she is insanely gifted.  You can read more about her here.  She also lives a world away now and I drink more tea to cope with her absence.  She’s the lovely one in the middle who’s face I appear to be devouring.

I’m so honored to share this little platform with her, so without further ado, please join me welcoming sweet B to the Simply Bloom writing team…

 

A  L E T T E R   T O   M Y   B A B E S   :   P H I L I P P I A N S   S T Y L E

(Paraphrased from the book of Philippians…)

 

There are so many things I want to say.  So many important things that seem to get swept away by the relentless current of our full days.

Read it over and over little ones.

Let it settle in your heart.

THIS.

This is the Truth that will set you free.

Every time I think of you my little one, I thank God for you!  I pray for you constantly, always overcome with joy because I have held you in my arms since your first breath and in my heart since your first heartbeat.  My prayer for you is this:

That first and foremost your love will burst through all boundaries!  And that you will grow in knowledge and the ability to discern what is BEST – not just good enough, but what is BEST – so that you may always remain pure, not muddied by the sin and darkness in your heart or in this world.  I pray that the fruit of the living in step with the Spirit will fill up your entire being.

I am so confident that God is the one at work in you, which gives me huge comfort, (because as hard as I have tried to be the best mom I can, I constantly fall short and fail you) and He has promised that HE WILL BE FAITHFUL to complete the work in you.  We only have to be patient and wait until the day Jesus comes back for us. I can’t wait to see how He transforms your body, already made in His image, into a glorious heavenly body! It’s coming one day baby.  Hold tight.

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Carefully determine who you will journey with in this life – choose people who love the Lord with all their heart and mind and soul and strength.  Don’t become like those around you who have set out on a path of destruction.  Let nothing steal your joy. Instead fix your eyes on the only one who can Save – who has and is and will bring everything under His control.  You can trust Him.

And when life gets hard, and it will my sweet, know that there will come a day when all the wrongs will be made right. We will have an eternity where peace and justice and love reign from on high.  Take heart, Jesus has come, and is coming and will always come to your rescue.  Until then, know that it’s an honor to have heard the Good News and to believe in Jesus, and also to suffer for him.   (Because there are millions each day who live and die without ever hearing that Rescue has come.)

I long to be with you always.  I can’t imagine a day when I am not by your side.  But WHATEVER HAPPENS, always position your heart and your actions in right step with God – so that by your actions, the people around you will see the Good News living in you.  Stand strong, always seeking unity with your sisters and with your community.  Work together as one body for Jesus, and don’t ever be afraid of anyone who might stand against you.

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With your sisters and all your brothers and sisters in Christ around the world, strive to share the same mind, hold on to the same Love so that you can be ONE in spirit and purpose.  Never act out of your ambition or selfishness or out of what is only best for you, but be humble like Jesus was – consider others better than yourself.

There isn’t anything I wouldn’t do for you.  But there is one thing I couldn’t do for you – I couldn’t save you from the darkness in your heart, any more than I could save myself.  But Jesus did it!  And God says that we are supposed to be just like him!  This is who Jesus is:

Jesus was God.

Get that – He is God. (Let that sink in deep.)

But instead of holding tight to his power (which he had the right to do) he emptied himself of everything.

The Creator became like the created.

He obeyed everything His Father sent Him to do, even the most painful, shameful, public death imaginable.

(We will never know how much this really cost Him.)

But because he obeyed…

Faithful Papa God lifted Him up to the highest position, and gave Him the Name above all Names.

So when His name is spoken EVERY KNEE WILL BOW in heaven and on earth and under the earth.

(One day we will all bow little ones, because Jesus IS the Truth and His Name IS above every other name…so he presents us with an invitation: position your heart to bow before Him now…or feel your knee hit reality when it is too late.)

Everyone will finally see and confess that Jesus Christ IS THE LORD.

Glory to God!

Therefore, Beloved, as you were taught to obey while you were in our household, continue to obey when you are on your own and no one is watching.  Continue in a posture of deep respect and reverence, never taking it lightly that it is the GOD OF THE UNIVERSE who is working in you right now, to change your heart and your will and help you act according to His Good Purposes.  Do everything without complaining or arguing – literally everything – so that you can become blameless and pure and be true children of God (which is the most important position you can ever hold).  This world is dark and lost and depraved, but you Child of God, shine like the stars on the deepest darkest night as you hold out the Word of Life.

Shine baby.

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There isn’t anything you can do to shine on your own.  Consider everything filthy rags before the Holiness of God.  There is no rule you can keep, no service you can provide, no words you can say that will make you holy enough to stand before God.  There is only Christ – his work on the cross and his work in your life.  Know Him.  He is good.  I pray that you will have true relationship with Him, becoming just like Him, even if it means suffering and death – because death in Christ leads to resurrection!

I am not telling you these things because I am perfect.  You have seen my fall flat on my face as I try to keep step with Jesus.  But every day God gives me the strength to stand on his new mercies and to press on again and again toward the Prize.  He is the prize.  He is the only goal.  And you are one of the greatest reasons that I continue to press in and press on.

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Beloved babes – There are no words to express how much I love you – you are my constant joy – Stand firmly on the Rock of Jesus Christ.  Rejoice always.  Always, always have Joy!  Be gentle with everyone, even when it seems impossible, remember that God is more near that you can imagine.  Practice this daily: Do not be anxious about anything – nothing! – but in every single detail of your life (because there is no distinction between spiritual and secular, nothing that is too minuscule for God to care about) ask our Good Papa to work it out, talk with him about it and then leave it in His hands.  The best way to keep away anxiety is to pray constantly and give thanks in all circumstances, even the ugly ones.  God promises that when we do this, His Peace – that far surpasses our understanding – will guard our hearts and minds.  You will be protected and safe.

God has made your mind a powerful tool – so therefore resolve to only ponder things that are True, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent and praise worthy.  Choose to obey all the things Jesus has commanded us to do.  Know that the God of Peace will always be with you.

Only Papa knows what your future holds.  I pray that whether you have more than enough or if you are struggling along, that you will find your contentment – real, lasting contented joy – in Him.  You can do all things through Christ who gives you strength.  My God, the God of the Bible, the Creator of the Universe, the One Who Holds ALL THINGS Together – He is the one who will meet all of your needs.  His resources are endless and glorious and constantly flowing from Jesus Christ.  May He get the Glory in your life little one.

Remember, there is always Grace.

Grace is always enough.

You are enough because He is enough.

 

[photo credit: Cate]

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This week on Oh, Good Grief, we wrap up our exploration of the 9 Enneagram types, and how each one engages grief, with Type One: The Reformer.

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But that’s only half the story.

Take a walk around the backside and you’ll see something entirely different: a large branch, nearly a third of the tree, black and barren. Clearly diseased. Clearly dead. Clearly in need of pruning.

And yet, every time I walk past it on our evening loop around the campground behind our house, it catches me off guard. I forget it’s even there.

Maybe because I prefer to look at the fruitful side.

And isn’t that a little like us?

We’re pretty comfortable displaying the beautiful parts: the wins, the answered prayers, the accomplishments, the parts of life that look healthy and fruitful.

The broken parts? The grief. The struggling relationships. The things we’ve neglected. The places where we’re tired or hurting or simply not okay?

Those we tend to tuck around the backside, hoping no one notices.

But here’s the thing: what we hide still needs tending.

We don’t have to be ashamed of the barren branches. We don’t have to pretend they aren’t there. And we certainly don’t have to wait until everything looks beautiful before we allow ourselves to be honest.

Maybe growth does look like good fruit.

And maybe sometimes it looks like finally walking around back, taking an honest look, and saying, That needs to go.

Pruning isn’t failure.
It’s making room for what’s still alive.

And if you’ve got a few dead branches of your own right now, take heart. You are not the barren branch. You are the whole tree. 🌿

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If you are a Nine, my prayer is that you would nev If you are a Nine, my prayer is that you would never lose your gift of bringing calm, compassion, and steadiness into a fractured world.

Those are beautiful reflections of the heart of Christ.

But may you also discover that your voice is not an interruption, your needs are not an inconvenience, and your presence is not optional. May you become the kind of peacemaker who tells the truth with love, receives love without shrinking, and lives fully awake to the life God has entrusted to you.

May you know, deep in your soul, that you don't have to disappear to belong.
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has come at the cost of your own presence?

This week on Oh, Good Grief, we're exploring Enneagram Nine: The Peacemaker.

Nines have an incredible gift for helping others feel safe, seen, and understood.
But somewhere along the way, many learned that staying connected meant staying quiet.

What if healing isn't about becoming louder?
What if it's about believing your voice already belongs in the room?

🎧 Episode 037 is available wherever you listen to podcasts.
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In case you needed someone to tell you: yes, you should absolutely make the impromptu stop at the roadside farm stand and buy the $5 bouquet of flowers.

No, you do not need a reason.

No, you do not need to be buying them for someone else (although that is a perfectly lovely thing to do, too).

Buy them for yourself.
Put them in your kitchen.
Smile every time you walk past them. 🌸

And support your local flower growers and farm stands while you’re at it.

That is all.

You may now return to your regularly scheduled scrolling.
If you are an Eight, my prayer is that you would n If you are an Eight, my prayer is that you would
never lose your fierce love for justice, your courage,
or your willingness to protect those who cannot protect themselves. 

Those are holy gifts.

But may you also discover the freedom of being protected yourself.
May you find people with whom you no longer need armor. And may you know, deep in your bones, that the God who fights for you is inviting you to rest...
not because you're weak, but because you were never meant to carry every battle alone.
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Our expectations for peach season were high.

Turns out, that tree was throwing itself a retirement party.
It died the following year.

We’ve since planted two more. The one that has always been unproductive surprised us this summer with these gorgeous, generous peaches. The healthy, established tree that usually produces? One. Single. Peach.

Fruit-bearing is an interesting thing.
Unpredictable. Relatively unmanageable.
Sometimes delicious and sometimes disappointing.

And maybe that’s why I love the reminder it offers:
performance isn’t always a good indicator
of what’s happening beneath the surface.

Take heart, dear one.

Some seasons, you’ll crush the to-do list,
accomplish the goals and have plenty to show for yourself.

Other seasons, you’ll simply keep showing up.
Quietly. Consistently. Faithfully.

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Many Eights learned early that strength was safer than vulnerability.
But what if healing isn't about becoming less strong?

What if it's about discovering that courage
and tenderness were never meant to compete?

God isn't asking you to lay down your strength.
He's inviting you to lay down the armor you no longer need.

🎧 Episode 036 is available wherever you listen to podcasts.
If you identify with the Enneagram 7, my prayer fo If you identify with the Enneagram 7, my prayer
for you is that you would never lose your capacity
for wonder, laughter, creativity, and hope.

Those are sacred gifts.

But may you also discover the freedom of staying present
when life feels heavy. May you trust that joy does not disappear
when sorrow arrives. May you find that God is not only present
in the moments of celebration, but also in the quiet,
painful places you once tried to avoid.

The One who created your joy can also hold your grief.

You are loved.
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