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Happy 6th Birthday, Bean!

Happy birthday, precious girl! You’re 6 already…where has the time gone? It seems like just a little while ago that you were kicking on the inside as we folded little pink onesies and waited with baited breath for your arrival.

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Alathea Grace, you are so perfectly named. Truth and grace; two things that abound in your character. You are so trustworthy and responsible, honest to a fault, and the most gracious, tenderhearted little girl I’ve ever known. You delight my momma heart.

We are so very proud of you, and couldn’t ask for more in the heart of a daughter.

The way you love your friends and look for ways to include those left out…the way you love your little brother and are so quick to forgive his boyish antics…and the way you fiercely love your daddy and me, and extend grace when we fail at this parenting thing, just blows me away.

Your kindness, your compassion, your gentle spirit, your wild streak, your love of babies, your sense of humor, and your delightful awe of beautiful things are just a few of the things that make you the precious gem you are.

If we could hand pick a daughter out of all the 6 year olds all over the world…we’d pick you. Every single time!

You’re our favorite 6 year old human being in the whole entire world in the history of ever.

I love the way you ask me deep, complicated life questions as I’m walking out of your bedroom at night. I love the way you just gobble up nature shows and passionately learn about wildlife. I love that you knew many of the major bones in the body at 3 years old, and that you called your patella, your “nutella”. I love that you still struggle to say “certificate”. I love the way you drop those beats on the counter while I’m making dinner {we have got to get you a drum!}. I love that your head is covered in the sweetest halo of curls I’ve ever seen. I love that you see God’s love for you in the sunset. I love the way you stroke your brother’s cheek and call him “sweet boy”. I love the way your face lights up each and every time you see your daddy in uniform. I love that you remember small details, like the fact that I love it when it rains and is sunny at the same time, and you call me to see my “favorite kind of rain”. I love the smattering of freckles that adorn your nose and cheeks. I love that you really get our heart on healthy foods, and that you want to fuel your body well…even when given the freedom to choose. I love the way your plonk on the keyboard and worship God in spontaneous song when you think nobody is listening. I love the way you look for ways to bless others, because you’re beginning to understand the incredible joy of speaking life and offering love to a broken world. I love the way you cuddle up on my lap while when we’re reading The Chronicles of Narnia, and the way you beg for ‘just one more!’. I love the way you love my mommy and daddy (your nana and papa) and the way you delight their hearts by just being you. And I love listening to you talk to Jesus about how thankful you are for everything in your life.

You are one incredible little lady, and I so look forward to watching you blossom into all you were created to be.

Thank you for being such a sweet, gracious, patient, loving daughter. I simply adore being your mommy!

Happy 6th birthday, sweet Bean!

We love you more than you’ll ever truly comprehend (although the way you love us back certainly gives the impression you’re catching on).

Rock on, girlfriend.

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  4. Happy Birthday, {Big Boy} Bug!
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What if grace has been waiting for you where perfe What if grace has been waiting for you
where perfection never could take you?

This week on Oh, Good Grief, we wrap up our exploration of the 9 Enneagram types, and how each one engages grief, with Type One: The Reformer.

We'll explore the gift of integrity, the burden of the inner critic, and the freedom that comes when we stop striving to earn what God has already given.

The Enneagram may reveal the stories we've believed to survive.
But only grace tells us who we've been all along.

🎧 Episode 038 is available wherever you listen to podcasts.
From the front, our little apple tree is living he From the front, our little apple tree is living her best life: laden with fruit and bursting with life.

But that’s only half the story.

Take a walk around the backside and you’ll see something entirely different: a large branch, nearly a third of the tree, black and barren. Clearly diseased. Clearly dead. Clearly in need of pruning.

And yet, every time I walk past it on our evening loop around the campground behind our house, it catches me off guard. I forget it’s even there.

Maybe because I prefer to look at the fruitful side.

And isn’t that a little like us?

We’re pretty comfortable displaying the beautiful parts: the wins, the answered prayers, the accomplishments, the parts of life that look healthy and fruitful.

The broken parts? The grief. The struggling relationships. The things we’ve neglected. The places where we’re tired or hurting or simply not okay?

Those we tend to tuck around the backside, hoping no one notices.

But here’s the thing: what we hide still needs tending.

We don’t have to be ashamed of the barren branches. We don’t have to pretend they aren’t there. And we certainly don’t have to wait until everything looks beautiful before we allow ourselves to be honest.

Maybe growth does look like good fruit.

And maybe sometimes it looks like finally walking around back, taking an honest look, and saying, That needs to go.

Pruning isn’t failure.
It’s making room for what’s still alive.

And if you’ve got a few dead branches of your own right now, take heart. You are not the barren branch. You are the whole tree. 🌿

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If you are a Nine, my prayer is that you would nev If you are a Nine, my prayer is that you would never lose your gift of bringing calm, compassion, and steadiness into a fractured world.

Those are beautiful reflections of the heart of Christ.

But may you also discover that your voice is not an interruption, your needs are not an inconvenience, and your presence is not optional. May you become the kind of peacemaker who tells the truth with love, receives love without shrinking, and lives fully awake to the life God has entrusted to you.

May you know, deep in your soul, that you don't have to disappear to belong.
What if the peace you've been protecting has come What if the peace you've been protecting
has come at the cost of your own presence?

This week on Oh, Good Grief, we're exploring Enneagram Nine: The Peacemaker.

Nines have an incredible gift for helping others feel safe, seen, and understood.
But somewhere along the way, many learned that staying connected meant staying quiet.

What if healing isn't about becoming louder?
What if it's about believing your voice already belongs in the room?

🎧 Episode 037 is available wherever you listen to podcasts.
Permission Granted. In case you needed someone t Permission Granted. 

In case you needed someone to tell you: yes, you should absolutely make the impromptu stop at the roadside farm stand and buy the $5 bouquet of flowers.

No, you do not need a reason.

No, you do not need to be buying them for someone else (although that is a perfectly lovely thing to do, too).

Buy them for yourself.
Put them in your kitchen.
Smile every time you walk past them. 🌸

And support your local flower growers and farm stands while you’re at it.

That is all.

You may now return to your regularly scheduled scrolling.
If you are an Eight, my prayer is that you would n If you are an Eight, my prayer is that you would
never lose your fierce love for justice, your courage,
or your willingness to protect those who cannot protect themselves. 

Those are holy gifts.

But may you also discover the freedom of being protected yourself.
May you find people with whom you no longer need armor. And may you know, deep in your bones, that the God who fights for you is inviting you to rest...
not because you're weak, but because you were never meant to carry every battle alone.
The year we moved into this house, a peach tree sp The year we moved into this house, a peach tree spoiled us thoroughly. It produced more peaches than we knew what to do with—cobbler, galette, crumble, smoothies, fruit leathers, and basket loads given away.

Our expectations for peach season were high.

Turns out, that tree was throwing itself a retirement party.
It died the following year.

We’ve since planted two more. The one that has always been unproductive surprised us this summer with these gorgeous, generous peaches. The healthy, established tree that usually produces? One. Single. Peach.

Fruit-bearing is an interesting thing.
Unpredictable. Relatively unmanageable.
Sometimes delicious and sometimes disappointing.

And maybe that’s why I love the reminder it offers:
performance isn’t always a good indicator
of what’s happening beneath the surface.

Take heart, dear one.

Some seasons, you’ll crush the to-do list,
accomplish the goals and have plenty to show for yourself.

Other seasons, you’ll simply keep showing up.
Quietly. Consistently. Faithfully.

And that is enough, too. 🌱
What if your greatest strength was never meant to What if your greatest strength
was never meant to become a hiding place?

This week on Oh, Good Grief, we're continuing in our Summer Enneagram Series by exploring the Type Eight: The Challenger.

Many Eights learned early that strength was safer than vulnerability.
But what if healing isn't about becoming less strong?

What if it's about discovering that courage
and tenderness were never meant to compete?

God isn't asking you to lay down your strength.
He's inviting you to lay down the armor you no longer need.

🎧 Episode 036 is available wherever you listen to podcasts.
If you identify with the Enneagram 7, my prayer fo If you identify with the Enneagram 7, my prayer
for you is that you would never lose your capacity
for wonder, laughter, creativity, and hope.

Those are sacred gifts.

But may you also discover the freedom of staying present
when life feels heavy. May you trust that joy does not disappear
when sorrow arrives. May you find that God is not only present
in the moments of celebration, but also in the quiet,
painful places you once tried to avoid.

The One who created your joy can also hold your grief.

You are loved.
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