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The Man {before My Man}

I’ll just put it out there: my husband had some pretty big shoes to fill.

Before he came along, I wasn’t sure I’d ever meet anyone quite like the man my mom had met 35+ years ago {who promptly asked her to marry him 4 days later}. 

Sure, there are plenty of great guys out there {I’m related to a few of them}, but you know…when your dad rocks the world as stunningly as our dad did…you start to wonder.  Will anyone ever really measure up? 

{I’m proud to answer that question with a resounding “yes”!}

You see, my father is an astonishingly amazing man.

Daddy

And what makes him that much more amazing is the many lives he has touched.  I am constantly hearing from people {when they find out who my parents are} how much they love/respect/enjoy {insert any accolade here} my mom and dad.

They’re a dynamite team!

And my dad…he’s just plain lovable. 

The fact that he’s a walking encyclopedia makes him that much more interesting to engage in conversation with {his strong South African accent simply adds to the experience}, but boy…this guy is easy to love!

He’s cool.

{Just look at that beard}

Daddy 2

He has since lost the sexy beard {ahem} and finally parted with that bushy moustache.  Now that we’re teaching him to dress like a “cool pastor” {ha ha}…sans substantial facial hair, donning black shirt and jeans, spiked hair, the works…we’re finally able to heal.  We never knew our daddy had a top lip! {after years of our begging – and my mom’s heavy hinting – in an effort to get my father to shave his moustache, we threatened to do it for him while he slept.  He reluctantly agreed and my mom got to see his upper lip for the first time.  Ever.  After 30+ years of marriage, he bared all. 

{And it’s cute.  So he kept it.  Amen}.

Where was I…?

He is quite possibly the most gracious man I’ve ever met {and my hubby will agree!}

He has a quiet strength and the most refreshing air of humility – mingled with confidence – about him.

His never-ending love for learning inspires me. 

His faithful, passionate love for our mom blesses me.

His extravagant love for Jesus motivates me.

He unassuming love for people challenges me.

He is an encourager of the underdog.  A defender of the weak.  And constant teacher to those willing to learn {which, as a 13-18 year old, I cannot say I was}.

He is one of the most stellar human beings I’ve ever had the honor of knowing {not to mention, getting to call him “daddy”}

But I would have to say that one of my absolute favorite things about my dad…

Cricket & Papa

is the papa he is to my kids.

To say they adore him would be a tremendous understatement.

  Cricket & Papa 2

Thanks for spending almost the entire trip up North drawing detailed little sketches on the magnetic doodle board to entertain the 3 year old in the car.  You rock.

We love you, daddy/papa! 

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  2. My Baby Daddy: A Tribute
  3. An Open Letter to my Mother
  4. Sweet Girl
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May you remember that God is not only the God of d May you remember that God is not only
the God of destinations, but of detours.

When life takes you somewhere you never intended to go,
may you recognize that you have not been forgotten.

May you have eyes to see the people in front of you,
hands willing to gather the sticks,
courage to shake off the snakes,
a heart willing to welcome and be welcomed,
and faith to believe that even here,
especially here, God is at work.
What if the place you keep calling a detour is act What if the place you keep calling a detour is actually part of the story?

Paul was headed to Rome. Instead, he ended up shipwrecked on Malta.
It wasn't the destination. But it mattered.

A reminder for all of us: don't waste the waiting,
the detour, or the place you didn't choose.

🎙️ 042 | Make Malta Matter | Finding Purpose in Divine Detours
  The latest Oh, Good Grief Podcast episode is out now.

#OhGoodGriefPodcast #MakeMaltaMatter #SimplyBloomCo
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What if the years you thought were wasted… weren't What if the years you thought were wasted…
weren't wasted at all?

In Part 2 of my conversation with Leah Harvey,
we go deeper into what it means to trust
God when the outcome is still unknown.

Leah has spent years carrying the ache of infertility,
and she doesn't offer a tidy answer or a spiritual shortcut.

Instead, she talks about restoration.
About eternity.
About choosing Jesus over her preference.
About looking for treasure in the middle of the story.

And about the surprising realization that there
may not have been wasted years after all,
because God was present in every one of them.

He is.
Even here.
Even now.

🎧 Part Two with Leah Harvey is live now.

#OhGoodGriefPodcast #StruggleWell #StayRooted #SojournTogether
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What if trusting that God is good doesn't mean bel What if trusting that God is good doesn't mean
believing He will give us everything we ask for?

That's one of the questions my friend Leah Harvey
and I wrestle with in this week's episode.

Leah and her hubby, Jake, have walked through years
of infertility and the kind of unanswered prayer that
doesn't just hurt once—it asks you to keep
trusting God over and over again.

We talk about grief, surrender, the questions we sometimes feel afraid to ask, and what happens when we stop trying to put tidy answers over messy pain.

This is a tender conversation about choosing Jesus over our preferences, embracing the mystery of God, and learning to believe that His goodness doesn't depend on whether He gives us the thing we're asking for.

Part One of my conversation with Leah Harvey is live now
🎧  040 | The Goodness of God in the Waiting

#OhGoodGriefPodcast #StruggleWell #StayRooted #SojournTogether
Before the world told you who you needed to become Before the world told you who you needed to become...
Before fear taught you how to survive...
Before shame convinced you to hide...
God looked at you and called you His own.

Not because you had healed.
Not because you had figured yourself out.
Not because you had become your best self.
Simply because you were His.

You are still becoming.
And you are already loved.

Keep coming home.

#OhGoodGriefPodcast #SimplyBloomCo
What if the goal isn't to become a different type, What if the goal isn't to become a different type,
but to become more fully yourself?

We've spent the last several weeks exploring the Enneagram:
our gifts, wounds, coping strategies, and the stories we
learned to believe in order to survive.

Now it's time to come home.

Episode 039 closes this Summer Series by asking
what happens when self-awareness becomes surrender.

The Enneagram can help us understand our patterns.
But it was never meant to become our identity.

You are not your number.
You are not your trauma.
You are not your coping strategy.

You are a beloved child of God.

🎧 Oh, Good Grief — Episode 039 is available now.
Sitting on the front porch with a cup of coffee, m Sitting on the front porch with a cup of coffee, my Bible and a book of maps in my lap, and the sun on my face, has me thinking about how strange and beautiful life can be.

It’s no small honor to be given the opportunity to preach at our church from time to time. Had you told the broken, shoplifting, lying, giving-her-body-away-for-free teenage girl I once was that one day she’d stand in a pulpit and talk to people about God’s goodness and grace, I would have laughed at you.

But maybe that’s exactly why God delights in using the messy, the unlikely, the misfits. Because these are the stories that make His redemption impossible to miss.

One of my favorite lines from The Chosen, spoken by Mary Magdalene, sums it up perfectly: “I was one way, and now I am completely different. And the thing that happened in between was Him.”

That’s my story, too.
And if I were to hazard a guess, it's yours as well.

It’s one of my greatest joys to dig into God’s Word, share what He’s laid on my heart, offer some encouragement and conviction, confess the uncomfortable things, and ultimately point people back to Jesus.

Because there’s no denying the extraordinary power of redemption when you’ve lived it yourself.
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