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The Man {before My Man}

I’ll just put it out there: my husband had some pretty big shoes to fill.

Before he came along, I wasn’t sure I’d ever meet anyone quite like the man my mom had met 35+ years ago {who promptly asked her to marry him 4 days later}. 

Sure, there are plenty of great guys out there {I’m related to a few of them}, but you know…when your dad rocks the world as stunningly as our dad did…you start to wonder.  Will anyone ever really measure up? 

{I’m proud to answer that question with a resounding “yes”!}

You see, my father is an astonishingly amazing man.

Daddy

And what makes him that much more amazing is the many lives he has touched.  I am constantly hearing from people {when they find out who my parents are} how much they love/respect/enjoy {insert any accolade here} my mom and dad.

They’re a dynamite team!

And my dad…he’s just plain lovable. 

The fact that he’s a walking encyclopedia makes him that much more interesting to engage in conversation with {his strong South African accent simply adds to the experience}, but boy…this guy is easy to love!

He’s cool.

{Just look at that beard}

Daddy 2

He has since lost the sexy beard {ahem} and finally parted with that bushy moustache.  Now that we’re teaching him to dress like a “cool pastor” {ha ha}…sans substantial facial hair, donning black shirt and jeans, spiked hair, the works…we’re finally able to heal.  We never knew our daddy had a top lip! {after years of our begging – and my mom’s heavy hinting – in an effort to get my father to shave his moustache, we threatened to do it for him while he slept.  He reluctantly agreed and my mom got to see his upper lip for the first time.  Ever.  After 30+ years of marriage, he bared all. 

{And it’s cute.  So he kept it.  Amen}.

Where was I…?

He is quite possibly the most gracious man I’ve ever met {and my hubby will agree!}

He has a quiet strength and the most refreshing air of humility – mingled with confidence – about him.

His never-ending love for learning inspires me. 

His faithful, passionate love for our mom blesses me.

His extravagant love for Jesus motivates me.

He unassuming love for people challenges me.

He is an encourager of the underdog.  A defender of the weak.  And constant teacher to those willing to learn {which, as a 13-18 year old, I cannot say I was}.

He is one of the most stellar human beings I’ve ever had the honor of knowing {not to mention, getting to call him “daddy”}

But I would have to say that one of my absolute favorite things about my dad…

Cricket & Papa

is the papa he is to my kids.

To say they adore him would be a tremendous understatement.

  Cricket & Papa 2

Thanks for spending almost the entire trip up North drawing detailed little sketches on the magnetic doodle board to entertain the 3 year old in the car.  You rock.

We love you, daddy/papa! 

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I am regularly overwhelmed by the kindness of God I am regularly overwhelmed by the 
kindness of God in the small + simple.

Things like twinkle lights + Christmas jazz,
scraping out the peanut butter fudge pot
all by myself while sitting on the counter,
and walking around the corner to find my
loin fruit snuggled up together over tea.

They may fight like cats + dogs at times,
but their bond is deep and true and sweet.
Happy release day, @dralisoncook 💛 Written at Happy release day, @dralisoncook 💛

Written at the intersection 
of faith and psychology, 
this book is yet another 
soul-nourishing,
heart-healing, 
boundary-fortifying 
gift from Alison Cook
(if you’ve had a heart-to-heart
with me in the past two years,
you know how much I loved 
‘Boundaries for the Soul’). 

As an enneagram 2 who was raised 
in the church, this book was a timely
and liberating read. Pure balm for the 
weary, recovering-people-pleaser soul. 

I am beyond grateful for the wisdom, 
compassion + experience that Alison 
brings to all she shares (and it was
such an honor to be on her launch 
team for this beautiful new book).

Need a survival guide for your growth
and healing journey? Here you go! ✌🏼

#thebestofyou #thebestofyoubook #womenoffaith #healthyboundaries #healthyyou #healingjourney
Find yourself a tribe of people who will, togethe Find yourself a tribe of people who will, 
together, spend a beautiful Saturday
morning pulling this workout off:

• 20 mile run
• 340 tire flips
• 2,000 air squats
• 1,000 pull ups
• 1,500 box jumps
• 2,200 pull ups
• 600 devil press
• 3,300 sit ups

Brutal. Amazing. 
Exhausted.
So grateful for these two - their friendship, enco So grateful for these two - their friendship,
encouragement and wise counsel over the
past decade of being our pastoral couple
has been such a gift to our family 💛

Congrats on your retirement, dear friends!!
“Over the years, I have come to realize that t “Over the years, 
I have come to realize that 
the greatest trap in our life is not 
success, popularity, or power, 
but self-rejection.”
 :: Henri Nouwen

Somewhere along the journey of 
life, we start to believe the lie that - 
despite being made in the very image 
of a good and beautiful God - who we 
are is inherently bad and broken, and 
we learn to cover that deep sense 
of inadequacy (and the shame that 
accompanies it) with performance.

Because our visceral 
human response to 
‘bad + broken’ is 
‘reject + conceal’.

We think it’s the rejection of others
that cuts us to the core, but the truth
is…most of us walk around wounded 
by a constant and unrelenting sense 
of self-rejection and self-loathing.

Want to know why we feverishly seek 
out the approval and validation of others?
Why we desperately want others to like us?

Because we’re out of touch with our
inherent value and worth, and we’re
not sure that we even like ourselves.

We resent our weakness,
and abandon ourselves.

/ / /

But this good + beautiful God of ours…
He is drawn to our weakness like a
moth to a flame, swooping in to
bring strength and grace.

Paul writes in Corinthians 12:9 that 
he learned to delight in his weakness 
because it was when he was week that
“His strength is perfected in me”. 

Or, as the Passion Translation so 
stunningly puts it, “my weakness 
becomes a portal to God’s power”.

Precious ones, we can shun our tender
still-in-process places, pretend to have 
it all together, and hustle for our worth…
OR we can drop the masks, offer kindness 
and curiosity to our hurting, broken parts,
and learn to live fully seen and known.

But we can’t have both.

And yes, it’s scary.

Today may we choose
…grace over perfectionism
…curiosity over shame
…acceptance over rejection
…gentleness over judgement
…wholeness over pretense

You are loved.
And they’re off! Alathea is in 10th grade and A And they’re off!

Alathea is in 10th grade and
Aiden is heading into 8th grade.

Here’s to a year full of grace,
discovery, friendship + growth 🙌🏼
"Faith isn't the ability to believe long + far i "Faith isn't the ability 
to believe long + far 
into the misty future. 
It's simply taking God 
at His Word + taking 
the next step."

:: Joni Eareckson Tada
Day 15 | Beach Day + Travel Prep We fly out late Day 15 | Beach Day + Travel Prep

We fly out late tomorrow evening so today
has been a lazy day of laundry, laying in the
sun, a petshop visit (where Aiden fell in love 
with a cute rat + I discovered zebra finches), 
an impromptu stop for bubble tea + stuffed crepes [oh my word, were these delicious!!],
shopping [I found the best, comfiest - Joe
would argue ‘ugliest’ - romper at the thrift
store that I can’t wait to wear on our long
journey home], and Aiden is currently off
doing his thing: fishing right from the pier.
Our view from the lodge last night ✨ Our view from the lodge last night ✨
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