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Dreaming of the Cape

Amidst the whirlwind of conversation and marketing relating to the World Cup, I have seen the words “South Africa” on more random objects than ever before…coke cans, t-shirts, posters, bumper stickers and magazine covers.

And there’s a twinge of home-sickness triggered with each glimpse.

South Africa.

Cape Town.

In the words of my favorite hyena from Lion King…”oooh, say it again!”

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Oh, beloved Southern Cape.  You have captured my heart and we will forever be forced to fork out thousands of dollars and put our lives on hold every few years to come and soak up your beauty.  And cry when we have to leave.

Really…you should go.

I took so many {magical} photos of Table Mountain that I’m quite certain it’s impossible to take a bad photo of it.  Just look at her in all her majesty!  {I didn’t even have to pay those two boys to stand there…it was just too perfect for words!

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South Africa.

It’s like music to my ears.

While no longer the words that are embossed on my passport {that would be “Namibia”}, it will always be considered home.  I was born in Cape Town and am desperately in love with the cape.

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It has been 4 years since I was last home.  My hubby and I travelled across South Africa and Namibia for 5 stunning weeks, 4 long years ago.  We had been married for 3 years and we felt it was time that he see for himself this ravishing country my family spoke often of.  Besides, having met only 3 members of my extended family, I ached for him to know more about who I was, where I came from, and who the stellar human beings I got to call family were.

He completely and utterly fell in love.

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{I have ALWAYS wanted to take pictures of these changing rooms in St. James…this was a dream come true.  I know, I’m odd like that.  Can you say “easily excitable”?}

And while it was hard to return home after gallivanting across the country together in a sexy little VW Polo, we got to bring an extra special souvenir home with us.

We found out we were expecting our daughter shortly after we arrived home.

Cricket.  Our love gift from Southern Africa.

We calculated back and discovered our little babe was conceived shortly after we did this {oh stop…I’m not talking about that…that’s a no-brainer!}…

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Yeah.  We were pretty pumped about how cool we thought we had suddenly become {never mind that we were manipulated by an evil little shirt in the souvenir shop that taunted: fear is temporary, regret is forever}.

Well it’s true.  We’re thankful the fear only lasted for the 47 {painfully long} minutes it took to go through the training and wait in line {we were terrified}.  The thrill of jumping off South Africa’s highest bridge had our adrenaline surging for days afterwards.  And the delightful reward we reaped from shaking our bodies up so severely happens to turn 3 later this month.

Below is the memory we snapped of the salads we shared in Hermanus while deciding to boycott birth control and throw caution to the wind {or at least surrender the reins we thought we were holding to the Guy who figures all that out anyway}…aaaw, aren’t we cute?  I had cheek bones, collar bones and a waist line back then.  Who knew?

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We bungee jumped the next day.  The rest is history.  {Please note that this is not intended to communicate: “want to get pregnant?…jump off a bridge”.  But you knew that already.}

A couple other favs for your viewing enjoyment…

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{Seaview Game Park near Port Elizabeth}

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{Cape Wine Tour}

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{Pilanesburg}

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{A view from the Intsomi Lodge in the Alexandria Forrest}

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{Kenton on Sea}

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{Sitting atop my uncle’s brain-child; the brilliant man behind Going Nowhere Slowly}

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Next {memory} stop…Namibia.

Stay tuned.

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  4. Cake Pops for Africa
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As Christmas draws near, may your heart find space As Christmas draws near, may your heart find space for rest, for healing, for hope, and for the quiet ways God is making you new.

If you’re tired, be gentle with yourself.
If you’re hopeful, savor it.
And if you’re somewhere in between,
welcome to being human.
Grace meets us in all of it.
For months, I’ve been sitting with a gentle nudge For months, I’ve been sitting with a gentle nudge I couldn’t ignore.
A pull toward sharing again, but differently. Softer. Slower.
From a place shaped by grief, held by God, and steadied by healing.

And now, after years off the public stage… it’s almost time.

A new project is coming.
A conversation, really - about the hard and holy parts of being human.
About faith that’s wrestled with, not polished.
About becoming whole in the places that once felt broken.

I’m both excited and cautious, stepping back into this space with open hands, trusting the One who invited me here.

In one week, I get to share what’s been stirring.
I hope you’ll join me.
In the grace-laced words of Aundi Kolber, may we " In the grace-laced words of Aundi Kolber,
may we "try softer" this time around, 
and into the coming year.
All is grace.
As we move through this season of thanksgiving and As we move through this season of thanksgiving and inch toward the end of the year, I’ve been reflecting on what this year has held — the heartbreak and the healing, the grit and the grace, the parts we survived and the parts that surprised us. And a few things rise to the top.

I’m grateful for life — for the young one we lost too soon and the impact he made, and for my favorite one who got to stay. For the ICU team who cared for my hubby after his stroke and surgery. For his life, his healing, and the restoration we’ve witnessed.

I’m grateful for seasons — for the reminder that it won’t always be this way. Hard seasons don’t last forever, and goodness still finds its way into the cracks.

I’m grateful for friendship — for the people God has enveloped us in. For community that feels like home. For the redemptive conversations and the healing that happens around a table with people who know you and love you still. And fresh sourdough.

I’m grateful for movement — early Thursday walks with my best friend, returning to the gym after five months away… achy, winded, and 15 pounds heavier, but still showing up. For a body that’s in transition, but resilient.

I’m grateful for my kids — for our daughter’s graduation one month after the stroke and the miracle of that day. For our son, now taller than all of us, with a tender heart shaped by brutal loss. And for our bonus boy who has loved our girl well for years—and loves us, too.

And I’m grateful for the Word — for the way it’s carried, challenged, and steadied us. And for The Chosen and House of David for breathing fresh life and color into Scripture again.

There’s more, always.
But today… this is enough.

Gratitude for what was.
Hope for what’s ahead.
Grace for the in-between.
After a long stretch of quiet, I can feel a new se After a long stretch of quiet,
I can feel a new season taking shape.

It’s subtle… a little tender… and honestly, a bit terrifying.
But it also feels like grace. Slow and steady, patient and unassuming.

The last few years have held both ache and healing, unraveling and rebuilding. God has been faithful in the dark corners, gentle in the grief, and persistent in inviting me back to life in ways I didn’t expect.

I don’t have all the answers.
In fact, I’m not even sure I have most of them.
But I do know this...
Something is coming.
Something rooted.
Something honest.
Something that has been growing quietly beneath the surface.

I’ve missed this space.
I’m easing back in, one brave, grateful step at a time.

Stay close. More soon.
Grace + gratitude 🌱
I am regularly overwhelmed by the kindness of God I am regularly overwhelmed by the 
kindness of God in the small + simple.

Things like twinkle lights + Christmas jazz,
scraping out the peanut butter fudge pot
all by myself while sitting on the counter,
and walking around the corner to find my
loin fruit snuggled up together over tea.

They may fight like cats + dogs at times,
but their bond is deep and true and sweet.
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• 20 mile run
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Brutal. Amazing. 
Exhausted.
So grateful for these two - their friendship, enco So grateful for these two - their friendship,
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past decade of being our pastoral couple
has been such a gift to our family 💛

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