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Dreaming of the Cape

Amidst the whirlwind of conversation and marketing relating to the World Cup, I have seen the words “South Africa” on more random objects than ever before…coke cans, t-shirts, posters, bumper stickers and magazine covers.

And there’s a twinge of home-sickness triggered with each glimpse.

South Africa.

Cape Town.

In the words of my favorite hyena from Lion King…”oooh, say it again!”

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Oh, beloved Southern Cape.  You have captured my heart and we will forever be forced to fork out thousands of dollars and put our lives on hold every few years to come and soak up your beauty.  And cry when we have to leave.

Really…you should go.

I took so many {magical} photos of Table Mountain that I’m quite certain it’s impossible to take a bad photo of it.  Just look at her in all her majesty!  {I didn’t even have to pay those two boys to stand there…it was just too perfect for words!

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South Africa.

It’s like music to my ears.

While no longer the words that are embossed on my passport {that would be “Namibia”}, it will always be considered home.  I was born in Cape Town and am desperately in love with the cape.

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It has been 4 years since I was last home.  My hubby and I travelled across South Africa and Namibia for 5 stunning weeks, 4 long years ago.  We had been married for 3 years and we felt it was time that he see for himself this ravishing country my family spoke often of.  Besides, having met only 3 members of my extended family, I ached for him to know more about who I was, where I came from, and who the stellar human beings I got to call family were.

He completely and utterly fell in love.

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{I have ALWAYS wanted to take pictures of these changing rooms in St. James…this was a dream come true.  I know, I’m odd like that.  Can you say “easily excitable”?}

And while it was hard to return home after gallivanting across the country together in a sexy little VW Polo, we got to bring an extra special souvenir home with us.

We found out we were expecting our daughter shortly after we arrived home.

Cricket.  Our love gift from Southern Africa.

We calculated back and discovered our little babe was conceived shortly after we did this {oh stop…I’m not talking about that…that’s a no-brainer!}…

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Yeah.  We were pretty pumped about how cool we thought we had suddenly become {never mind that we were manipulated by an evil little shirt in the souvenir shop that taunted: fear is temporary, regret is forever}.

Well it’s true.  We’re thankful the fear only lasted for the 47 {painfully long} minutes it took to go through the training and wait in line {we were terrified}.  The thrill of jumping off South Africa’s highest bridge had our adrenaline surging for days afterwards.  And the delightful reward we reaped from shaking our bodies up so severely happens to turn 3 later this month.

Below is the memory we snapped of the salads we shared in Hermanus while deciding to boycott birth control and throw caution to the wind {or at least surrender the reins we thought we were holding to the Guy who figures all that out anyway}…aaaw, aren’t we cute?  I had cheek bones, collar bones and a waist line back then.  Who knew?

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We bungee jumped the next day.  The rest is history.  {Please note that this is not intended to communicate: “want to get pregnant?…jump off a bridge”.  But you knew that already.}

A couple other favs for your viewing enjoyment…

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{Seaview Game Park near Port Elizabeth}

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{Cape Wine Tour}

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{Pilanesburg}

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{A view from the Intsomi Lodge in the Alexandria Forrest}

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{Kenton on Sea}

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{Sitting atop my uncle’s brain-child; the brilliant man behind Going Nowhere Slowly}

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Next {memory} stop…Namibia.

Stay tuned.

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kindness of God in the small + simple.

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scraping out the peanut butter fudge pot
all by myself while sitting on the counter,
and walking around the corner to find my
loin fruit snuggled up together over tea.

They may fight like cats + dogs at times,
but their bond is deep and true and sweet.
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As an enneagram 2 who was raised 
in the church, this book was a timely
and liberating read. Pure balm for the 
weary, recovering-people-pleaser soul. 

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together, spend a beautiful Saturday
morning pulling this workout off:

• 20 mile run
• 340 tire flips
• 2,000 air squats
• 1,000 pull ups
• 1,500 box jumps
• 2,200 pull ups
• 600 devil press
• 3,300 sit ups

Brutal. Amazing. 
Exhausted.
So grateful for these two - their friendship, enco So grateful for these two - their friendship,
encouragement and wise counsel over the
past decade of being our pastoral couple
has been such a gift to our family 💛

Congrats on your retirement, dear friends!!
“Over the years, I have come to realize that t “Over the years, 
I have come to realize that 
the greatest trap in our life is not 
success, popularity, or power, 
but self-rejection.”
 :: Henri Nouwen

Somewhere along the journey of 
life, we start to believe the lie that - 
despite being made in the very image 
of a good and beautiful God - who we 
are is inherently bad and broken, and 
we learn to cover that deep sense 
of inadequacy (and the shame that 
accompanies it) with performance.

Because our visceral 
human response to 
‘bad + broken’ is 
‘reject + conceal’.

We think it’s the rejection of others
that cuts us to the core, but the truth
is…most of us walk around wounded 
by a constant and unrelenting sense 
of self-rejection and self-loathing.

Want to know why we feverishly seek 
out the approval and validation of others?
Why we desperately want others to like us?

Because we’re out of touch with our
inherent value and worth, and we’re
not sure that we even like ourselves.

We resent our weakness,
and abandon ourselves.

/ / /

But this good + beautiful God of ours…
He is drawn to our weakness like a
moth to a flame, swooping in to
bring strength and grace.

Paul writes in Corinthians 12:9 that 
he learned to delight in his weakness 
because it was when he was week that
“His strength is perfected in me”. 

Or, as the Passion Translation so 
stunningly puts it, “my weakness 
becomes a portal to God’s power”.

Precious ones, we can shun our tender
still-in-process places, pretend to have 
it all together, and hustle for our worth…
OR we can drop the masks, offer kindness 
and curiosity to our hurting, broken parts,
and learn to live fully seen and known.

But we can’t have both.

And yes, it’s scary.

Today may we choose
…grace over perfectionism
…curiosity over shame
…acceptance over rejection
…gentleness over judgement
…wholeness over pretense

You are loved.
And they’re off! Alathea is in 10th grade and A And they’re off!

Alathea is in 10th grade and
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Here’s to a year full of grace,
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to believe long + far 
into the misty future. 
It's simply taking God 
at His Word + taking 
the next step."

:: Joni Eareckson Tada
Day 15 | Beach Day + Travel Prep We fly out late Day 15 | Beach Day + Travel Prep

We fly out late tomorrow evening so today
has been a lazy day of laundry, laying in the
sun, a petshop visit (where Aiden fell in love 
with a cute rat + I discovered zebra finches), 
an impromptu stop for bubble tea + stuffed crepes [oh my word, were these delicious!!],
shopping [I found the best, comfiest - Joe
would argue ‘ugliest’ - romper at the thrift
store that I can’t wait to wear on our long
journey home], and Aiden is currently off
doing his thing: fishing right from the pier.
Our view from the lodge last night ✨ Our view from the lodge last night ✨
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