• Facebook
    • Instagram
    • LinkedIn
    • Pinterest
    • YouTube

Simply Bloom Co.

Where Passion & Purpose Collide

  • About
    • FAQ
    • Media & Interviews
    • Blog
      • Everyday Blooms
      • Marriage
      • Motherhood
      • Recipes
        • Breakfasts & Snack Foods
        • Lunches & Main Meals
        • Desserts & Sweet Treats
  • Speaking
    • Topics
    • Schedule
    • Conferences
    • Enneagram
    • Reviews
    • Podcast
      • Episodes
    • Booking
  • Podcast
  • Books
    • SOZO Book
    • Penduka Book
      • Penduka Shop
    • XES Book
      • Book Reviews
      • Interviews & Podcasts
    • R:EVOLVE Journal
  • Design
    • Client Reviews
    • Investment
    • Book in Bloom
      • Book in Bloom Bundles
  • Shop

Dreaming of the Cape

Amidst the whirlwind of conversation and marketing relating to the World Cup, I have seen the words “South Africa” on more random objects than ever before…coke cans, t-shirts, posters, bumper stickers and magazine covers.

And there’s a twinge of home-sickness triggered with each glimpse.

South Africa.

Cape Town.

In the words of my favorite hyena from Lion King…”oooh, say it again!”

IMG_3453

Oh, beloved Southern Cape.  You have captured my heart and we will forever be forced to fork out thousands of dollars and put our lives on hold every few years to come and soak up your beauty.  And cry when we have to leave.

Really…you should go.

I took so many {magical} photos of Table Mountain that I’m quite certain it’s impossible to take a bad photo of it.  Just look at her in all her majesty!  {I didn’t even have to pay those two boys to stand there…it was just too perfect for words!

 IMG_3035

 IMG_3442 IMG_3445

South Africa.

It’s like music to my ears.

While no longer the words that are embossed on my passport {that would be “Namibia”}, it will always be considered home.  I was born in Cape Town and am desperately in love with the cape.

IMG_3503IMG_3511 IMG_3499 IMG_3501 IMG_3502 

It has been 4 years since I was last home.  My hubby and I travelled across South Africa and Namibia for 5 stunning weeks, 4 long years ago.  We had been married for 3 years and we felt it was time that he see for himself this ravishing country my family spoke often of.  Besides, having met only 3 members of my extended family, I ached for him to know more about who I was, where I came from, and who the stellar human beings I got to call family were.

He completely and utterly fell in love.

IMG_3580 IMG_3575

{I have ALWAYS wanted to take pictures of these changing rooms in St. James…this was a dream come true.  I know, I’m odd like that.  Can you say “easily excitable”?}

And while it was hard to return home after gallivanting across the country together in a sexy little VW Polo, we got to bring an extra special souvenir home with us.

We found out we were expecting our daughter shortly after we arrived home.

Cricket.  Our love gift from Southern Africa.

We calculated back and discovered our little babe was conceived shortly after we did this {oh stop…I’m not talking about that…that’s a no-brainer!}…

 IMG_5417 IMG_5419

 IMG_5536IMG_5538

IMG_5388

Yeah.  We were pretty pumped about how cool we thought we had suddenly become {never mind that we were manipulated by an evil little shirt in the souvenir shop that taunted: fear is temporary, regret is forever}.

Well it’s true.  We’re thankful the fear only lasted for the 47 {painfully long} minutes it took to go through the training and wait in line {we were terrified}.  The thrill of jumping off South Africa’s highest bridge had our adrenaline surging for days afterwards.  And the delightful reward we reaped from shaking our bodies up so severely happens to turn 3 later this month.

Below is the memory we snapped of the salads we shared in Hermanus while deciding to boycott birth control and throw caution to the wind {or at least surrender the reins we thought we were holding to the Guy who figures all that out anyway}…aaaw, aren’t we cute?  I had cheek bones, collar bones and a waist line back then.  Who knew?

IMG_3699

We bungee jumped the next day.  The rest is history.  {Please note that this is not intended to communicate: “want to get pregnant?…jump off a bridge”.  But you knew that already.}

A couple other favs for your viewing enjoyment…

IMG_4056 IMG_3887

IMG_3917

{Seaview Game Park near Port Elizabeth}

  IMG_3988IMG_3944  IMG_4001 IMG_3940

{Cape Wine Tour}

IMG_3317 IMG_3324

IMG_3252

IMG_3276 IMG_3284

IMG_3295

{Pilanesburg}

IMG_4269 IMG_4281

IMG_4274 IMG_4275

{A view from the Intsomi Lodge in the Alexandria Forrest}

IMG_4185

{Kenton on Sea}

maybe10printing1printing3

{Sitting atop my uncle’s brain-child; the brilliant man behind Going Nowhere Slowly}

IMG_3212

Next {memory} stop…Namibia.

Stay tuned.

Related posts:

  1. She’s Dreaming…
  2. The Story of Us
  3. {Proud as a Peacock} July Desktop Wallpaper
  4. Cake Pops for Africa
«
»

Travels

Don’t miss a thing! Sign up for the monthly newsletter…

Simply Bloom exists to empower women to embrace their stories, live out their passion with purpose, and leave a legacy of love.
 photo Joy.jpg

Hello there! I'm Joy. Speaker, designer, author & coach, and creator of the #weROARproject. Welcome to Simply Bloom Co., where passion & purpose collide.

Subscribe for Updates

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • LinkedIn
  • Pinterest
  • RSS
May you remember that God is not only the God of d May you remember that God is not only
the God of destinations, but of detours.

When life takes you somewhere you never intended to go,
may you recognize that you have not been forgotten.

May you have eyes to see the people in front of you,
hands willing to gather the sticks,
courage to shake off the snakes,
a heart willing to welcome and be welcomed,
and faith to believe that even here,
especially here, God is at work.
What if the place you keep calling a detour is act What if the place you keep calling a detour is actually part of the story?

Paul was headed to Rome. Instead, he ended up shipwrecked on Malta.
It wasn't the destination. But it mattered.

A reminder for all of us: don't waste the waiting,
the detour, or the place you didn't choose.

🎙️ 042 | Make Malta Matter | Finding Purpose in Divine Detours
  The latest Oh, Good Grief Podcast episode is out now.

#OhGoodGriefPodcast #MakeMaltaMatter #SimplyBloomCo
Instagram post 17924817765424628 Instagram post 17924817765424628
What if the years you thought were wasted… weren't What if the years you thought were wasted…
weren't wasted at all?

In Part 2 of my conversation with Leah Harvey,
we go deeper into what it means to trust
God when the outcome is still unknown.

Leah has spent years carrying the ache of infertility,
and she doesn't offer a tidy answer or a spiritual shortcut.

Instead, she talks about restoration.
About eternity.
About choosing Jesus over her preference.
About looking for treasure in the middle of the story.

And about the surprising realization that there
may not have been wasted years after all,
because God was present in every one of them.

He is.
Even here.
Even now.

🎧 Part Two with Leah Harvey is live now.

#OhGoodGriefPodcast #StruggleWell #StayRooted #SojournTogether
Instagram post 18091972097640684 Instagram post 18091972097640684
What if trusting that God is good doesn't mean bel What if trusting that God is good doesn't mean
believing He will give us everything we ask for?

That's one of the questions my friend Leah Harvey
and I wrestle with in this week's episode.

Leah and her hubby, Jake, have walked through years
of infertility and the kind of unanswered prayer that
doesn't just hurt once—it asks you to keep
trusting God over and over again.

We talk about grief, surrender, the questions we sometimes feel afraid to ask, and what happens when we stop trying to put tidy answers over messy pain.

This is a tender conversation about choosing Jesus over our preferences, embracing the mystery of God, and learning to believe that His goodness doesn't depend on whether He gives us the thing we're asking for.

Part One of my conversation with Leah Harvey is live now
🎧  040 | The Goodness of God in the Waiting

#OhGoodGriefPodcast #StruggleWell #StayRooted #SojournTogether
Before the world told you who you needed to become Before the world told you who you needed to become...
Before fear taught you how to survive...
Before shame convinced you to hide...
God looked at you and called you His own.

Not because you had healed.
Not because you had figured yourself out.
Not because you had become your best self.
Simply because you were His.

You are still becoming.
And you are already loved.

Keep coming home.

#OhGoodGriefPodcast #SimplyBloomCo
What if the goal isn't to become a different type, What if the goal isn't to become a different type,
but to become more fully yourself?

We've spent the last several weeks exploring the Enneagram:
our gifts, wounds, coping strategies, and the stories we
learned to believe in order to survive.

Now it's time to come home.

Episode 039 closes this Summer Series by asking
what happens when self-awareness becomes surrender.

The Enneagram can help us understand our patterns.
But it was never meant to become our identity.

You are not your number.
You are not your trauma.
You are not your coping strategy.

You are a beloved child of God.

🎧 Oh, Good Grief — Episode 039 is available now.
Sitting on the front porch with a cup of coffee, m Sitting on the front porch with a cup of coffee, my Bible and a book of maps in my lap, and the sun on my face, has me thinking about how strange and beautiful life can be.

It’s no small honor to be given the opportunity to preach at our church from time to time. Had you told the broken, shoplifting, lying, giving-her-body-away-for-free teenage girl I once was that one day she’d stand in a pulpit and talk to people about God’s goodness and grace, I would have laughed at you.

But maybe that’s exactly why God delights in using the messy, the unlikely, the misfits. Because these are the stories that make His redemption impossible to miss.

One of my favorite lines from The Chosen, spoken by Mary Magdalene, sums it up perfectly: “I was one way, and now I am completely different. And the thing that happened in between was Him.”

That’s my story, too.
And if I were to hazard a guess, it's yours as well.

It’s one of my greatest joys to dig into God’s Word, share what He’s laid on my heart, offer some encouragement and conviction, confess the uncomfortable things, and ultimately point people back to Jesus.

Because there’s no denying the extraordinary power of redemption when you’ve lived it yourself.
Follow @SimplyBloomJoy

Copyright © 2026 · Designed by Simply Bloom · Theme from Restored 316

Copyright © 2026 · Darling Theme on Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in

We use cookies to ensure that we give you the best experience on our website. Unfortunately it does not contain chocolate chips, you cannot eat it and there is no special hidden jar.