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And here we go again!

We’re on our back from a week on Martha’s Vineyard.  Massachusetts is behind us, Michigan is before us, and New York appears to have us in her grasp.  The dance across the Canadian border is up next.  Armed with a Passport, a Green card and the kids birth certificates, we hope for the best. We’ll see how the kids fare.  My babe would love to trek on through, but being the maternal figure in this car {and being that we are still 7 hours from home}, I’m more in touch with the reality that unless we desire our eardrums to bleed and our hair to be ripped from our very scalps, it is highly unlikely.  Highly. We have had a most glorious vacation, and have surprisingly spent less than budgeted.  This trip was the 2nd one given to us since the birth of our son.  God is just cool like that.  The first was when Aiden was 6 weeks old, when we trekked to Virginia for a timeshare that would have been wasted without our selfless voyage to save it {ahem}.  This time it was payment for a design job.  You’d think I charge a lot for design if you’d seen this place on the island, considering which island this is…a few thousand a week to rent it.  Nope.  This was simply the lavish offer by a sweet client who would have owed me around $300 for everything I designed for her, had she paid with money. Yup.  Lavish provision.  That’s how our God rolls. We invited a couple we love who are expecting their first child next month to join us {as a “babymoon” of sorts}, and a splendid time has been had by all!

MV Scenery 4 MV Scenery 6 MV Scenery 5 MV Scenery 2

MV Scenery 8 MV Scenery 9 MV Scenery 7

Needless to say, the island was beautiful.  Lovely.  Loaded with character.  And a very cooperative model for my budding love of photography.  Thanks Martha.

MV Family 1 MV Family 3 MV Family 2

And thanks, cricket, for being the cutest little darn thing since Shirley Temple.  Your momma loves you!  {and wishes you wouldn’t despise smiling for the camera like you do}.

MV Scenery 1

Today is my 29th birthday.  I’ve been meaning to get back on the blogging bandwagon for some time now (seeing I’ve had this sassy little blog designed for months now with absolutely nothing on it), and I can think of no better than today. Well, I suppose yesterday, or last month for that matter, would have been nice…but let’s be realistic. Today is all I’ve got.  A And today is a new day.  It’s a fresh start.  A celebration of life! Today I start my 30th year.  And by the very grace of God, I’m actually ridiculously excited about it.  The wisdom and maturity, comfort and security that the 30s {have the potential to} offer is just so appealing to me. You’ve heard it {or maybe you haven’t}: 30, flirty, and thriving.  I love that.  I want that {in a deep, less superficial way than it may be read initially}.  And this is all a part of getting there. My life is so in complete and utter limbo right now.  I feel like everything is uncertain around me.  We’re living in a house we haven’t closed on, an hour away from everything I know and hold dear to me outside of my husband and children, with some damaged furniture that, at this point in time, appears will not be replaced by the people who damaged it. I think it’s safe to say there’s room for growth. {Ahem} I have found blogging to be so therapeutic.  Healing, even.  Purging my heart and mind of the chaos, discovering the occasional nugget of wisdom, helps me process through the yucky stuff and forge onward. So giddyup…here we go again!

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I am regularly overwhelmed by the kindness of God I am regularly overwhelmed by the 
kindness of God in the small + simple.

Things like twinkle lights + Christmas jazz,
scraping out the peanut butter fudge pot
all by myself while sitting on the counter,
and walking around the corner to find my
loin fruit snuggled up together over tea.

They may fight like cats + dogs at times,
but their bond is deep and true and sweet.
Happy release day, @dralisoncook 💛 Written at the Happy release day, @dralisoncook 💛

Written at the intersection 
of faith and psychology, 
this book is yet another 
soul-nourishing,
heart-healing, 
boundary-fortifying 
gift from Alison Cook
(if you’ve had a heart-to-heart
with me in the past two years,
you know how much I loved 
‘Boundaries for the Soul’). 

As an enneagram 2 who was raised 
in the church, this book was a timely
and liberating read. Pure balm for the 
weary, recovering-people-pleaser soul. 

I am beyond grateful for the wisdom, 
compassion + experience that Alison 
brings to all she shares (and it was
such an honor to be on her launch 
team for this beautiful new book).

Need a survival guide for your growth
and healing journey? Here you go! ✌🏼

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Find yourself a tribe of people who will, togethe Find yourself a tribe of people who will, 
together, spend a beautiful Saturday
morning pulling this workout off:

• 20 mile run
• 340 tire flips
• 2,000 air squats
• 1,000 pull ups
• 1,500 box jumps
• 2,200 pull ups
• 600 devil press
• 3,300 sit ups

Brutal. Amazing. 
Exhausted.
So grateful for these two - their friendship, enco So grateful for these two - their friendship,
encouragement and wise counsel over the
past decade of being our pastoral couple
has been such a gift to our family 💛

Congrats on your retirement, dear friends!!
“Over the years, I have come to realize that the “Over the years, 
I have come to realize that 
the greatest trap in our life is not 
success, popularity, or power, 
but self-rejection.”
 :: Henri Nouwen

Somewhere along the journey of 
life, we start to believe the lie that - 
despite being made in the very image 
of a good and beautiful God - who we 
are is inherently bad and broken, and 
we learn to cover that deep sense 
of inadequacy (and the shame that 
accompanies it) with performance.

Because our visceral 
human response to 
‘bad + broken’ is 
‘reject + conceal’.

We think it’s the rejection of others
that cuts us to the core, but the truth
is…most of us walk around wounded 
by a constant and unrelenting sense 
of self-rejection and self-loathing.

Want to know why we feverishly seek 
out the approval and validation of others?
Why we desperately want others to like us?

Because we’re out of touch with our
inherent value and worth, and we’re
not sure that we even like ourselves.

We resent our weakness,
and abandon ourselves.

/ / /

But this good + beautiful God of ours…
He is drawn to our weakness like a
moth to a flame, swooping in to
bring strength and grace.

Paul writes in Corinthians 12:9 that 
he learned to delight in his weakness 
because it was when he was week that
“His strength is perfected in me”. 

Or, as the Passion Translation so 
stunningly puts it, “my weakness 
becomes a portal to God’s power”.

Precious ones, we can shun our tender
still-in-process places, pretend to have 
it all together, and hustle for our worth…
OR we can drop the masks, offer kindness 
and curiosity to our hurting, broken parts,
and learn to live fully seen and known.

But we can’t have both.

And yes, it’s scary.

Today may we choose
…grace over perfectionism
…curiosity over shame
…acceptance over rejection
…gentleness over judgement
…wholeness over pretense

You are loved.
And they’re off! Alathea is in 10th grade and Aid And they’re off!

Alathea is in 10th grade and
Aiden is heading into 8th grade.

Here’s to a year full of grace,
discovery, friendship + growth 🙌🏼
"Faith isn't the ability to believe long + far i "Faith isn't the ability 
to believe long + far 
into the misty future. 
It's simply taking God 
at His Word + taking 
the next step."

:: Joni Eareckson Tada
Day 15 | Beach Day + Travel Prep We fly out late Day 15 | Beach Day + Travel Prep

We fly out late tomorrow evening so today
has been a lazy day of laundry, laying in the
sun, a petshop visit (where Aiden fell in love 
with a cute rat + I discovered zebra finches), 
an impromptu stop for bubble tea + stuffed crepes [oh my word, were these delicious!!],
shopping [I found the best, comfiest - Joe
would argue ‘ugliest’ - romper at the thrift
store that I can’t wait to wear on our long
journey home], and Aiden is currently off
doing his thing: fishing right from the pier.
Our view from the lodge last night ✨ Our view from the lodge last night ✨
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