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Today. We’re. Home.

Today was a BIG day for us.

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So big, in fact, that we decided to hit Burger King in desperation celebration.

Wasn’t quite the date we had planned for this exciting occasion, but hey.

{this sad fact brought to you by our desperate need for babysitters in our new area}

 

You see…we’ve been living in a home that isn’t ours.

{After having lived in my parent’s home for 11 months, which too, wasn’t ours}

Then we fell in love.

With this sweet house.

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On it’s glorious 3.6 acres.

After putting an offer on it…on February 1st, 1978 {year slightly exaggerated},

we had to wait.

And wait.

And wait.

Then…oh, happy day…

Our offer was accepted.  A closing date scheduled.

Storage unit drop-off was scheduled and a moving/painting crew was in place.

All was right with the world.

But the day before we were set to close – and move – the bank postponed closing.

“Someone” had not signed on a line “somewhere”. 

Or something.

We were devastated, frustrated, disappointed.

And yet…

we had a peace that passed all understanding.

With our hearts set on this home – after 2 others falling through – and an offer from the sellers to go ahead with moving in…we stepped out.

In complete and utter blind faith.

To live – yet again – in a home that wasn’t ours.

We did what any reckless, foolish faith-filled, hopeful couple would do.

We accepted their kind offer to move in during the waiting phase…and hesitantly began to make it our own.

We did it quietly.  No whoopin’ and hollering…no celebrating the beautiful new place we’d quasi-acquired…not quite wanting to hear the response we expected:

“what?  you moved in before you closed?  are you crazy?”

Well, Yes. 

Yes we are.

Thank you.

So we proceeded to paint walls that weren’t ours.

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And plant vegetables in soil that wasn’t ours.

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And hang pictures in rooms that didn’t belong to us.

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And install light fixtures into ceilings and appliances into rooms that might not have housed them for long.

Allowing our children to run around starkers and pee in someone else’s grass.

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And generally make ourselves at home in a space that hung in the balance.

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They were all chances we took.

Knowing.

Praying.

Trusting.

That this lovely house – that we knew God had kept just for us {after having been on the market for over a year} – would one day belong to us.

Today was that day.

At 4:23pm, we signed the enormous stack of papers that declared this property our own.

We knew it.

We just had to wait 6 months for the bank to realize it.

{short sale my butt}

And in the mean time…passionately at work behind the scenes…God has given us 2.5 months of free rent…enough to cover half of the loss from our storage unit palava.

 

We’re home.

As I worked magic on my Fly Lady routine tonight {gotta love waking up to a clean kitchen and a shiny sink…despite the intense need for coffee after staying up later than desired}, with the 3 loves of my life fast asleep, I couldn’t help but smile.

Scraping dried spaghetti sauce off little polka dot plates was that much sweeter today. 

The gorgeous oak trim I get to stare at {surrounding our lovely view of the neighboring lake}…that trim…that’s all mine, ladies!

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And those windows?  They’re mine too.  The walls…the floors…the ceiling.

Finally ours.

It’s a beautiful thing.

I can here Ty’s voice now…

“Welcome home, McMillan family…welcome home”.

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Permission Granted. In case you needed someone t Permission Granted. 

In case you needed someone to tell you: yes, you should absolutely make the impromptu stop at the roadside farm stand and buy the $5 bouquet of flowers.

No, you do not need a reason.

No, you do not need to be buying them for someone else (although that is a perfectly lovely thing to do, too).

Buy them for yourself.
Put them in your kitchen.
Smile every time you walk past them. 🌸

And support your local flower growers and farm stands while you’re at it.

That is all.

You may now return to your regularly scheduled scrolling.
If you are an Eight, my prayer is that you would n If you are an Eight, my prayer is that you would
never lose your fierce love for justice, your courage,
or your willingness to protect those who cannot protect themselves. 

Those are holy gifts.

But may you also discover the freedom of being protected yourself.
May you find people with whom you no longer need armor. And may you know, deep in your bones, that the God who fights for you is inviting you to rest...
not because you're weak, but because you were never meant to carry every battle alone.
The year we moved into this house, a peach tree sp The year we moved into this house, a peach tree spoiled us thoroughly. It produced more peaches than we knew what to do with—cobbler, galette, crumble, smoothies, fruit leathers, and basket loads given away.

Our expectations for peach season were high.

Turns out, that tree was throwing itself a retirement party.
It died the following year.

We’ve since planted two more. The one that has always been unproductive surprised us this summer with these gorgeous, generous peaches. The healthy, established tree that usually produces? One. Single. Peach.

Fruit-bearing is an interesting thing.
Unpredictable. Relatively unmanageable.
Sometimes delicious and sometimes disappointing.

And maybe that’s why I love the reminder it offers:
performance isn’t always a good indicator
of what’s happening beneath the surface.

Take heart, dear one.

Some seasons, you’ll crush the to-do list,
accomplish the goals and have plenty to show for yourself.

Other seasons, you’ll simply keep showing up.
Quietly. Consistently. Faithfully.

And that is enough, too. 🌱
What if your greatest strength was never meant to What if your greatest strength
was never meant to become a hiding place?

This week on Oh, Good Grief, we're continuing in our Summer Enneagram Series by exploring the Type Eight: The Challenger.

Many Eights learned early that strength was safer than vulnerability.
But what if healing isn't about becoming less strong?

What if it's about discovering that courage
and tenderness were never meant to compete?

God isn't asking you to lay down your strength.
He's inviting you to lay down the armor you no longer need.

🎧 Episode 036 is available wherever you listen to podcasts.
If you identify with the Enneagram 7, my prayer fo If you identify with the Enneagram 7, my prayer
for you is that you would never lose your capacity
for wonder, laughter, creativity, and hope.

Those are sacred gifts.

But may you also discover the freedom of staying present
when life feels heavy. May you trust that joy does not disappear
when sorrow arrives. May you find that God is not only present
in the moments of celebration, but also in the quiet,
painful places you once tried to avoid.

The One who created your joy can also hold your grief.

You are loved.
What if the thing you've been running from is actu What if the thing you've been running from
is actually the doorway to healing?

This week on Oh, Good Grief, as we continue in our Summer Enneagram series, we’re exploring Type 7: The Enthusiast - their gift of joy, the longing for freedom, and the ways we sometimes run from pain because it feels too heavy to carry.

Sevens remind us that hope matters.
That beauty still exists.
That tomorrow can hold something good.

But joy was never meant to require us to avoid sorrow.
The invitation isn't to become less joyful.
It's to discover a joy deep enough to hold the whole story.

🎧 Episode 035 is available wherever you listen to podcasts.

#OhGoodGriefPodcast #SimplyBloomCo
If you identify with the Enneagram 6, my prayer fo If you identify with the Enneagram 6, my prayer for you
is that you would discover the freedom of loosening
your grip on certainty and opening your hands to trust.

May you never lose your ability to notice, prepare,
protect, and care deeply. Those are beautiful gifts.
But may fear no longer be the voice that leads you.

May you discover that courage has never meant the absence
of fear, it has meant knowing Who is with you in the middle of it.

The God who holds tomorrow is already present today.
What if the voice you've trusted most...has been f What if the voice you've trusted most...has been fear?

This week on Oh, Good Grief, we're exploring the Enneagram 6: The Loyalist, their gift of preparation, the weight of uncertainty, and the journey from fear to trust.

Sixes are often the ones who ask the important "what if" questions,
notice the details, protect what matters, and stay when things get hard.

But sometimes the same voice that helps us prepare can keep us trapped.

Fear is a wonderful informant.
It makes a terrible leader.

The invitation isn't to become fearless.
It's to discover the One who walks with us through every unknown.

🎧 Episode 034 is available wherever you listen to podcasts.

#SimplyBloomCo #OhGoodGriefPodcast
If you identify with the Enneagram 5, my prayer fo If you identify with the Enneagram 5, my prayer for you
is that you would discover the freedom of stepping out
from behind the walls you've built for protection.

May you never lose your curiosity,
your wisdom, or your love of learning.

May you discover that your needs do not
make you a burden, and your presence 
s more valuable than your productivity.

May you trust that God is not asking you to have
all the answers before He invites you closer.
The One who created your mind also created
your heart—and He delights in all of you.

You are loved.
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