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Happy Birthday, {Big Boy} Bug!

Aiden collage 2

I was examining the fine, downy swirls of peach fuzz on your neck and arms the other day when it hit me.  One day this stuff is going to be courser.  And darker.  And most likely, spread across your face in some sort of suave goatee fashion.  And I’m not quite sure how I feel about all this.

I now know what all those mamas with baby boys were talking about.  You guys have a way of stealing our hearts and wrecking us for good…in the best way possible.

I’m smitten.  Hook, line, and sinker, baby!

Your baby blues melt me.  Your adorably soft hair tickles me {quite literally, at times}.  Your deliciously huge belly concerns makes me chuckle.  Your crazy-face pulling cracks me up every time!  Your sweet smooches make me swoon.  And the way your cheeks and ears jiggle when you run simply delights my heart!

You’re entirely too fantastic for words!

I love the way you apologize to your sister so sweetly when you wack her in the noodle with a toy car.  Or bend down and kiss my big toe once you’ve discovered that you’ve ridden over it with your tricycle.  It’s quite endearing, actually.  Unsanitary as it may be.

The way you shriek “toot!” with such passion every time someone around you ‘pops a bunny’, and the pride with which you sing every word of “Happy Birthday” and almost every word of “Shoo Fly”, reminds me how desperately I need to work on proper children’s songs with you how much fun being little can be.  Thanks for keeping me on my toes!  I expect to feel this exhausted young well into my forties.

I love the way you respond with a simple “do!” whenever we ask you whether you’d like something.  Usually it’s in regard to a cup of tea.  Although that is most often followed up with a passionate “teee peeze, mama!”. 

You’re very polite, squashy. 

Except when you’ve been asked to lay down daddy’s sledge hammer and step away from his headlights.  I’m hoping having your own tool bench now will allow for some distance between you and the heavy metal objects in the garage.  And daddy’s motorcycle. 

We’re also hoping now that there’s a massive play structure in the back yard, that you’ll refrain from climbing on top of daddy’s car every three days.

You’re an animal.  In the best sense of the word.

You could quite easily be the wildest little creature I’ve ever laid eyes on.  And yet…you’re delightfully tender and surprisingly affectionate at the same time.  You’re all {sweet} boy, indeed.

You’re so patient with your big sister.  Most of the time, that is.  The way you allow her to dress you up in pink tutus and bedazzled tiaras, and get pushed around in a baby doll stroller, responding to the name “Penelope”, shows incredible naiveté character on your part.  Atta boy!

By the way, we’re hoping to sign a contract with the NFL in the near future.  You’d make a stellar linebacker.  I’m not sure whether it’s the way you eat…or the way you emerged {10 pounds, 6 ounces}…that destined you for big boy success…but you’re well on your way!  We keep reminding your sister that playing rough with you now might not be as fun for her in a couple of years {when the size tables have turned}.  We’ll keep reminding her.  You’re growing fast.

It’s hard to believe that 2 years have flown by so quickly.  It seems like just yesterday you were making your presence well-known within my abdominal cavity. 

We were just watching the home video of Bean turning 2, and there’s my belly…right in front of the camera…ripe and round, and ready to burst…and now look at you.

A fighter.  A little warrior on a mission.  To live!

I’ll never forget looking at you through the cold, hard glass in the PICU, just 10 little days old, begging God to allow us to keep you.  You kicked that SVT in the heinie!  Way to go, babe!

Thank you for alleviating my initial fear of raising a boy.  Growing up in a home filled with estrogen afforded me little opportunity to discover just how cool little boys could be.  God knew just the touch of dirt and spice we needed in this family…and you more than deliver.

You’re so stinking awesome.

And I simply love being your mum.

You rock our world, wild thing. 

Wild boy

Happy 2nd Birthday, sweet boy!

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I am regularly overwhelmed by the kindness of God I am regularly overwhelmed by the 
kindness of God in the small + simple.

Things like twinkle lights + Christmas jazz,
scraping out the peanut butter fudge pot
all by myself while sitting on the counter,
and walking around the corner to find my
loin fruit snuggled up together over tea.

They may fight like cats + dogs at times,
but their bond is deep and true and sweet.
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Written at the intersection 
of faith and psychology, 
this book is yet another 
soul-nourishing,
heart-healing, 
boundary-fortifying 
gift from Alison Cook
(if you’ve had a heart-to-heart
with me in the past two years,
you know how much I loved 
‘Boundaries for the Soul’). 

As an enneagram 2 who was raised 
in the church, this book was a timely
and liberating read. Pure balm for the 
weary, recovering-people-pleaser soul. 

I am beyond grateful for the wisdom, 
compassion + experience that Alison 
brings to all she shares (and it was
such an honor to be on her launch 
team for this beautiful new book).

Need a survival guide for your growth
and healing journey? Here you go! ✌🏼

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Find yourself a tribe of people who will, togethe Find yourself a tribe of people who will, 
together, spend a beautiful Saturday
morning pulling this workout off:

• 20 mile run
• 340 tire flips
• 2,000 air squats
• 1,000 pull ups
• 1,500 box jumps
• 2,200 pull ups
• 600 devil press
• 3,300 sit ups

Brutal. Amazing. 
Exhausted.
So grateful for these two - their friendship, enco So grateful for these two - their friendship,
encouragement and wise counsel over the
past decade of being our pastoral couple
has been such a gift to our family 💛

Congrats on your retirement, dear friends!!
“Over the years, I have come to realize that t “Over the years, 
I have come to realize that 
the greatest trap in our life is not 
success, popularity, or power, 
but self-rejection.”
 :: Henri Nouwen

Somewhere along the journey of 
life, we start to believe the lie that - 
despite being made in the very image 
of a good and beautiful God - who we 
are is inherently bad and broken, and 
we learn to cover that deep sense 
of inadequacy (and the shame that 
accompanies it) with performance.

Because our visceral 
human response to 
‘bad + broken’ is 
‘reject + conceal’.

We think it’s the rejection of others
that cuts us to the core, but the truth
is…most of us walk around wounded 
by a constant and unrelenting sense 
of self-rejection and self-loathing.

Want to know why we feverishly seek 
out the approval and validation of others?
Why we desperately want others to like us?

Because we’re out of touch with our
inherent value and worth, and we’re
not sure that we even like ourselves.

We resent our weakness,
and abandon ourselves.

/ / /

But this good + beautiful God of ours…
He is drawn to our weakness like a
moth to a flame, swooping in to
bring strength and grace.

Paul writes in Corinthians 12:9 that 
he learned to delight in his weakness 
because it was when he was week that
“His strength is perfected in me”. 

Or, as the Passion Translation so 
stunningly puts it, “my weakness 
becomes a portal to God’s power”.

Precious ones, we can shun our tender
still-in-process places, pretend to have 
it all together, and hustle for our worth…
OR we can drop the masks, offer kindness 
and curiosity to our hurting, broken parts,
and learn to live fully seen and known.

But we can’t have both.

And yes, it’s scary.

Today may we choose
…grace over perfectionism
…curiosity over shame
…acceptance over rejection
…gentleness over judgement
…wholeness over pretense

You are loved.
And they’re off! Alathea is in 10th grade and A And they’re off!

Alathea is in 10th grade and
Aiden is heading into 8th grade.

Here’s to a year full of grace,
discovery, friendship + growth 🙌🏼
"Faith isn't the ability to believe long + far i "Faith isn't the ability 
to believe long + far 
into the misty future. 
It's simply taking God 
at His Word + taking 
the next step."

:: Joni Eareckson Tada
Day 15 | Beach Day + Travel Prep We fly out late Day 15 | Beach Day + Travel Prep

We fly out late tomorrow evening so today
has been a lazy day of laundry, laying in the
sun, a petshop visit (where Aiden fell in love 
with a cute rat + I discovered zebra finches), 
an impromptu stop for bubble tea + stuffed crepes [oh my word, were these delicious!!],
shopping [I found the best, comfiest - Joe
would argue ‘ugliest’ - romper at the thrift
store that I can’t wait to wear on our long
journey home], and Aiden is currently off
doing his thing: fishing right from the pier.
Our view from the lodge last night ✨ Our view from the lodge last night ✨
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