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My Big {American} Day

To say this whole {lengthily & expensive} Naturalization process has been a blur…

blur

would be incorrect. 

Only the above {rather important, once-in-a-lifetime} photo op was.  Ahem.

I recall each step with crystal-clear, vivid detail.

Armed with precious bands and beads – the silver band, engraved with my name, given to me in Namibia by my parents when I was 9 years old…the green & brown string, by my baby sister, upon her return from Ghana…the red and blue ones, a hand-strung gift from my precious “besties” in honor of this momentous day…and my little American flag – my husband and I made our second trip down to Detroit in 1 week.

Armed with beads

For one of the biggest days of my life.

{Pay no attention to the odd placement of my rebellious hair, nor the unsightly thickness of my torso…but simply take in the magnitude of this beautiful, memorable day}

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I sung.  I stood.  I sat.  I swore.  I smiled.

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Interesting factoid: this {lovely} judge – while standing in the very same court room as I – became an American citizen just 15 years ago.  Born in the UK, his parents hailed from Jamaica.  How cool is that?

joy and judge

Before making the 2 hour drive back home, my hubby and I went on to celebrate my freshly squeezed citizenship to this glorious country, melting pot of nationalities that it is, at none other than…The Melting Pot!

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One word: wow

But seeing one word just doesn’t cut it, let’s just say it was the most decadent, deliciously delightful date we’ve had in a long time {or less eloquently put: holy dipping heaven, batman}.

We laughed, ate, cried, ate, pulled ridiculous faces, ate, reminisced, ate, had deep theological discussion, and then ate some more.

It was the perfect “cherry on top” of my {sweet} day.

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Yesterday I handed in my little green card {aka. alien registration card} and became a proud new citizen of the United States of America, alongside 87 other people from across the globe.

While my husband is grieving his ability to boldly claim he is married to an Alien {really, he’s thrilled!}, I was tickled to hear that I could keep my Namibian passport after all!!  Squueeee!  While the States may no longer recognize it as valid documentation, it will make travel “back home” considerably more convenient}

While my heart will always sing of it’s African roots, and will ache to touch down on her breath-taking land every few years, there’s no denying my love for – and deep attachment to – this new land I call home.

For firmly rooted in her soil live some of the nearest and dearest treasures of my life.

Ah, yes…for home is indeed where the heart is.

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all by myself while sitting on the counter,
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They may fight like cats + dogs at times,
but their bond is deep and true and sweet.
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and liberating read. Pure balm for the 
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together, spend a beautiful Saturday
morning pulling this workout off:

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• 2,000 air squats
• 1,000 pull ups
• 1,500 box jumps
• 2,200 pull ups
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Brutal. Amazing. 
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encouragement and wise counsel over the
past decade of being our pastoral couple
has been such a gift to our family 💛

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I have come to realize that 
the greatest trap in our life is not 
success, popularity, or power, 
but self-rejection.”
 :: Henri Nouwen

Somewhere along the journey of 
life, we start to believe the lie that - 
despite being made in the very image 
of a good and beautiful God - who we 
are is inherently bad and broken, and 
we learn to cover that deep sense 
of inadequacy (and the shame that 
accompanies it) with performance.

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human response to 
‘bad + broken’ is 
‘reject + conceal’.

We think it’s the rejection of others
that cuts us to the core, but the truth
is…most of us walk around wounded 
by a constant and unrelenting sense 
of self-rejection and self-loathing.

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inherent value and worth, and we’re
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We resent our weakness,
and abandon ourselves.

/ / /

But this good + beautiful God of ours…
He is drawn to our weakness like a
moth to a flame, swooping in to
bring strength and grace.

Paul writes in Corinthians 12:9 that 
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because it was when he was week that
“His strength is perfected in me”. 

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still-in-process places, pretend to have 
it all together, and hustle for our worth…
OR we can drop the masks, offer kindness 
and curiosity to our hurting, broken parts,
and learn to live fully seen and known.

But we can’t have both.

And yes, it’s scary.

Today may we choose
…grace over perfectionism
…curiosity over shame
…acceptance over rejection
…gentleness over judgement
…wholeness over pretense

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to believe long + far 
into the misty future. 
It's simply taking God 
at His Word + taking 
the next step."

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We fly out late tomorrow evening so today
has been a lazy day of laundry, laying in the
sun, a petshop visit (where Aiden fell in love 
with a cute rat + I discovered zebra finches), 
an impromptu stop for bubble tea + stuffed crepes [oh my word, were these delicious!!],
shopping [I found the best, comfiest - Joe
would argue ‘ugliest’ - romper at the thrift
store that I can’t wait to wear on our long
journey home], and Aiden is currently off
doing his thing: fishing right from the pier.
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